By P Mohan Chandran
Have you ever found yourself being taken advantage of due to your innocence or emotional vulnerability? Has your talent ever been exploited by others to fulfill their personal agendas? Do you feel used, like a rung on someone else's ladder of success? If the answer is yes, this article is for you.
In the world's grand opera, some of us play the role of 'Givers'—those brimming with talent, ideas, and the purest intentions—while others take on the role of 'Takers'—individuals who know the art of reaping the fruits of others' labor. But here's the pressing question: In this dance of give-and-take, who's at fault? The exploited or the exploiter?
There's a popular adage, "More than the person who is cheated, it's the one who allowed them to be cheated who is at fault." But is this fair? The victim rarely sees the knife until it's in their back, while the perpetrator plans the betrayal meticulously. It seems unjust to place the blame on the innocent, doesn't it?
Yet, the other side of the coin presents a unique perspective. Isn't it a testament to your capabilities that you're even considered worthy of exploitation? After all, people exploit a diamond, not a stone. A diamond, with its allure and value, is sought after, while a stone is disregarded.
So, what does it mean to be the 'exploited'? It means you are a diamond, possessing a wealth of talent, skill, and value that others yearn to possess. It signifies that you hold an inexhaustible reservoir of creativity and talent that keeps drawing people in, time and time again.
Take the example of Nikola Tesla, a genius who was exploited by many, including Thomas Edison. Despite the multiple setbacks and betrayals, Tesla's revolutionary inventions continue to inspire and shape our world today.
Similarly, consider the sun. Its energy is tapped endlessly, yet it never ceases to shine. It provides light, warmth, and life. The sun is exploited, yes, but it's also celebrated and indispensable. It's not the sun's exploitation that we remember, but its invaluable contribution to life on Earth. You, too, can shine through exploitation, using it as a testament to your strength and resilience.
This isn't to say that exploitation is justified—it isn't. But as we navigate life, it's important to remember that our value doesn't diminish because someone fails to see it. If you've been exploited, take heart. You are a diamond, a sun—brimming with a boundless potential that others covet.
And here's the thought I leave you with: How will you use this perspective to reshape your understanding of exploitation? Will you let it define you or inspire you to realize your worth? Your skills and talents are invaluable. Don't let the fear of exploitation prevent you from shining. After all, diamonds are made under pressure, and it's the most exploited stars that shine the brightest.
Do you feel bad when someone exploits you?
Yes, it makes me extremely angry & look like a fool.
No, I feel sorry for exploiters who don't have self-worth.
© 2023. P Mohan Chandran. All Rights Reserved.
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